Hello friends,
I hope you are well and that you are slowly entering the magic of the holidays๐ ๐ป๐คถ๐ป ( I love this period full of stars in the eyes of the little wolves ๐คฉ). The list is made for us, the decorations are done, and weโre already well into the advent calendar๐.
This summer, we made a life-changing decision for the next 10/15 years: we got a dog again, a husky! ๐. Indeed it was a no-brainer when I saw the look on my daughterโs face when she was with the husky babies from the TANWEN pack ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ( link to their website).
To explain the situation:
-My son has been allergic to dogs for several years, so we were unable to get another one after the death of our labrador over seven years ago. But itโs been several months that we see that he wants to have one anyway.
-My big Aspergirl has for restricted interest the huskies. She dreams for months to have one and imagines herself with this dog when she is an adult.๐ฅฐ๐ถ
This summer, she went with my husband to do a โdog symbiosisโ day at the pack: walk and dog care! And they surprised her by showing her the 2/3 week-old litter of puppies! It was love at first sight ๐๐โฆ But we had to think about it because they are special dogs that require a lot of physical activity and behave close to the cat (for example: need to be alone, canโt learn the โbed-not-move,โ donโt bring back the toys,โฆ). And especially that our son passes the allergy test๐คง๐ค. So, he went to the pack after taking his medication (a minimum of safety ๐): he petted, hugged the dogs and even got licked andโฆ NO CARE!!! ๐ฅณ๐ฅณ
So it was off to the โhuskiesqueโ adventure.๐๐๐๐๐๐
Until we got Lou back, our little husky dog, the kids were asking questions every day: how will we take care of her, who will take her outโฆ.??? And our Aspergirl was both excited and anxious: it was not yet concrete, it was going to change our routine and hers, but at the same time, her dream was coming true. Our little guy was just excited!
The morning we went to pick her up, the excitement was at its peakโฆOnce we left with her: we were all happy, but we had a hard time realizing, and we realized that she was going to change our routine: a source of anguish๐ฐ for all of us!
The first days were intense because she had to get used to us, we had to get used to her and most of all we had to change our routine: we couldnโt leave her alone so in the evening at first we stayed with her!
But as the weeks went by, she got used to it, we did too, and now, at four and a half months old, she stays a bit alone at night when she wants to go to bedโฆbut we have to be in the house!๐.
In the beginning, some days, the kids had a hard time telling themselves that โit was true, that she is here with usโโฆ Even we felt the same way sometimes!
Our son immediately became addicted to Lou: they play together, cuddle, she licks him๐ถ๐ถ but she plays with him as she would with one of her brothers, or a dog buddyโฆso we are trying, still, to teach our son to manage her because otherwise she dominates him and gets on him ( huskies are very receptive to hierarchyโฆthey live in packs even if the group is made of humans ๐).
As she is bigger, our daughter has fewer worries on that side, but she is a bit โgaucheโ with Lou and is quickly drunk with her young puppy excitement!๐คฏ๐๐. But she loves it, always asks us about it when sheโs at college (even a picture some days ๐คช). We think sheโs a little confused sometimes about her primal wolf-dog reactions! (Itโs occasionally confusing ๐). But the older they get, the more manageable and fluid the relationship will be!
As for us parents, she has changed our daily routine (a walk with me in the morning and one in the evening with my husband, and my husband manages the weekend walks). Of course, some days are crazier than others ( she got intoxicated with cannabis, so go to emergency vet one night ๐ฅบbut no worries, just a bad trip๐ถ๐ซ๏ธ!). Still, we are glad to have her in our family! We air out because of her and forget about the complexity of our present life thanks to her!๐๐คฉ๐คฉ.
She really, and still today, brought us a lot: we feel that she is doing good to the children and us too!
-๐My big one is getting more and more confident: managing an animal is a big responsibility ( keep it for a few long minutes, give foodโฆ). But, as my daughter is capable, it strengthens her self-esteem.
๐My son has a new best friend: his dog! He has a great time with her. You can tell that her presence makes him feel good! He canโt wait to have her back every night! Even if she eats his toys a little ๐คช. Plus, she helps him with his allergies.
-๐๐We parents, she got us back in shape, forces us to move, oxygenate us! It feels so good. And while we spend time taking care of her, we think of something else than ๐ฆ ๐ฆ ๐ฆ ๐ฆ . And then she is so lovely, makes a lot of cuddlesโฆ So we take full advantage of it, and it is good for the morale!
You changed our life, and we thank him for it! ๐ถ๐ถ๐ถ๐ถ๐ถ๐ถ๐ถ๐ถ๐ถ๐ถ ๐ถ
And do you have a pet? Does it help your atypical child or children or yourself?
You can tell me your experience, your feeling in a comment or even in private message!๐ฅฐย
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